How many of you have family members that you have chosen to discontinue a relationship with because you are consciously moving away from abuse?
Why do we incarnate into families that have such radically different morals and ethics?
I can see many of you nodding your heads. In our world today this problem is like a silent epidemic that destroys a good part of many lives and the complete lives of others. Breaking free of this lower evolutionary loop can be extremely difficult. Even once you have broken free you may feel the deep wound of the soul for a lifetime. You may long for that divine family when you see it in other areas; you may dream about it, and you may do your best to solve this disfunction or void in your soul.
I have a Mexican friend who was born when his mother was 15; she had 9 siblings. You can imagine how this family has grown over 20 years. He cannot remember a single fight!
In North America the youth are fed medication to stay still, anti-depressants are prescribed now as a normal band-aid for sadness, and the elderly think it is normal to take pills to forget. Abuse in the family is still rampant. What is the karma behind family abuse? How do we fix it?
WHAT IS ABUSE?
This can even be challenging to understand, see and face. I work with many women who had their fathers, uncles or friends of the family crawl into bed with them before they were even aware of their own sexuality. They have had their sacred boundaries stolen from them by the very person who was supposed to be their protector. This is very clearly abuse. The idea of love become skewed.
There is also the other extreme where there is no physical violation, but rather emotional torment. A constant look of disapproval, an underlying tone of disgust, words and actions disguised so only you can receive the blow of heart pain. Again the idea of love becomes skewed. No matter where your story falls the ramifications of learning how to break away, heal and then manage to avoid any more abuse from anyone else is I am sorry to say, common. What happens after family is that you choose relationships that somehow mirror the original family situation.
BREAKING FREE
The first step is to be able to identify that you have been or are born under the abusive circumstance. Generally you will be able to look down your family line and see the thread all the way through to your parents.
Normally you will wait until it is completely unbearable before taking action. Guilt can be associated with not wanting to participate any longer in dysfunctional families that are disguised as ‘normal’. We are now living in a time when people are breaking out in massive numbers. The result is that people need to come together in TRIBE. Find like minded individuals who share the same morals and ethics as you. If you are in abusive relationships, fire them!
AQUARIAN AGE
We are not quite out of the Piscean Age but we can feel the new age appearing. This new 2,200 years will be exemplified by nuclear dysfunctional families dissolving and new types of families emerging. In fact is it not new, but the tribe members not having any family members within may be. If you find yourself in this group, please forgive yourself. If you have stepped away from an abusive family you are correct (at least in my opinion). Nobody needs to take abuse. Anything that is designed to hurt your soul is abuse.
HONOR YOUR FRIENDS AS YOUR TRIBE
Now your tribe can be super international. The key piece is that you know you are loved and you can go to your tribe to support you. It is your new family. If you find abuse within your tribe you know you have not let your own pattern go. Take on surrogate mothers, fathers, grandparents, brothers and sisters.
YOU WILL PROJECT WHAT YOU VIBRATE
If you have chosen to move away from abuse but find yourself still attracting it, you know that you are responsible and that you have to continue to heal your inner world so that you will find the reflection of your new pattern in your outer world.
BOUNDARIES AND KARMA
So much of what happens in this life can only be explained by the phenomena of karma. Not all karma happens in this life. Karma follows you through your lifetimes. If you want to move out of abuse, those family members that hurt you can be considered as your greatest teachers. Have compassion and gratitude for them for they are the ones who teach you to take care of your own soul.
IT STARTS WITH YOU
No matter your situation, you have no choice but to own it. Own your karma. Then take control consciously and rise out of misery. Do it gracefully. Become a Master of your own life. Do not expect those you leave behind to understand. Treat them still with respect. See them on your own terms. Mature. Feel compassion for everyone is doing the best they can.
SUN, MARS, KETU IN ARIES
This energy is unpredictable and explosive. It remains that way this week. Ketu brings in the karma of the past and acts like Mars. The Sun and Mars are incredibly powerful. War, abuse, and anger are at an all time high with the energy. Ketu creates secrets and secret movement of abuse on a personal level and secret movement of weapons and fire power on a global level. Globally it is a super sensitive time. I cannot stress that fact enough. We are seeing explosions and earthquakes. Know there is much going on that you do now know about, however, psychically you are feeling.
How we heal the world is by healing ourselves. You can transmute this current cosmic weather pattern into high octave fuel for your own evolution. If you need to deal with your own anger do it now! If you have aggression that needs to be faced, do it now! Have those conversations, take that action. Find your own peace that comes from releasing your own aggression. If your body temple is sick understand it is a reflection of you holding negativity within you or living within a negative situation for too long. Toxins always exist but cannot enter you unless you are in a weakened state. Instead of using the energy to hurt another as they have hurt you, use it to move away and find your tribe. Find the courage to be honest. Now is a good time. FIRE!
Love only…
