Imagine we are a massive group of souls coming in and out of this dimension, all with their our own personal karma . As much as we feel we are awake and conscious, the truth is we are way more unconscious. We sleep a good part of our life and when we wake we are still only using 2% of our DNA to manage our 6 senses. It’s a crazy concept to wrap our minds around!
When awake we find ourselves attracted to specific individuals because they trigger a feeling within us that makes us want to take our clothes off and merge our bodies.
MERGING FOR PLEASURE
We have different levels of desire to merge based on what dance move our souls are perfecting at the moment. Some souls are driven to experience merging with many different souls and view sexuality more like trying out different recipes.
Does this make the act of lovemaking anymore meaningful than someone who takes 6 months to get to know a new lover before jumping into the world of sexual passion compared to going straight into sexual passion within hours of meeting?
I know the answer to that question will be pretty evenly divided between yes and no. Of course how you answer this will depend on your own karmic code.
KARMIC DANCE
What is it when we come into contact with one soul in particular who activates our senses to such a degree that we open ourselves and move into intimacy directly and one of the participants has had enough with one or two encounters and is ready to move on to the next, while the other one of the participants is left with a longing and infatuation of the other.
PLANETS
Of course I always examine life from an astrological perspective! The main reason I continue to study this metaphysical language is because it offers answers that I can live with.
Each of us is soul prism. Think of your chart as how your prism is cut; like a puzzle. The permutations are almost endless. When we add another to ours there is a mixing of energies that is pure alchemy.
WHAT CAUSES ATTRACTION?
Mars, Venus and the Moon play a major role.
Sometimes combinations have will have all of your personal planets directly activated. This causes instant and overwhelming attraction.
Mars causes those attractions that cause you to act on impulse and even out of character.
Your Mars on the others’ Moon will is heating up energy. Depending on which signs and elements are involved the passion will be more or less.
WHAT CAUSES ENDINGS?
Why is it that those all consuming attractions can end as suddenly as they begin?
So much of my work involves relationship issues as people try to figure out why this strong attraction they have cannot result in a harmonious longterm relationship.
I look for what I call ‘blockers.
BLOCKERS
When either of you have one of these planets that are in the same signs ( the most potent) or opposite.
Mars and Saturn
Saturn and Moon
Mars Moon
Mars Sun
WHY?
Mars is the same planet that turns you on and also makes you angry or disrupts your equalibrium.
If there is any anger hiding under the surface that has not been resolved or family patterns of exploding anger on the one your love this aspect can cause problems.
So you may find yourself super attracted and eventually fighting.
Of course it can work if both parties are clear and full of love.
If his/her Saturn is at the same degree as your Mars, Sun or Moon you can be left feeling restricted; unable to be yourself and feeling like you can never get enough of the other.
CAN IT STILL WORK?
The answer is Yes!
If both of you have worked through your ‘issues’ these combinations can elevate and work in a completely different way.
Saturn then can operate as a high level of commitment. There can be a level of responsibility that causes comfort and belonging. Generally this is not the case. It is a good idea to pay attention to those combinations when experiencing a dramatic attraction.
MATCHING MARS
When looking at what creates a successful union the Mars energy must be well matched. Mars is libido. Your libido is your needs; your sexual needs. If this is too lopsided eventually one comprimises their soul which usually translates into a disease.
SOUL DANCES
Because we are so unconscious we do not really understand half of what is going on! Clearly we have karma with certain souls. A complete relationship can be worked out in one encounter while some take years of devotion until they hit the completion.
The most important thing is that we learn.
We are here learning how to love more.
Each relationship can take us closer to a higher expression of love.
TIME
Is a complete relationship that lasts one or two evenings more important that a relationship that lasts 20 years?
Because we do not really understand the full story my guess is that both relationships can have equal value in your karmic journey.
This is why a relationship that lasts 48 hours can be as powerful in your journey as one that lasts much longer.
The impact can be the same.
UNDERSTAND YOUR CHART
If you become familiar with your own chart then you can take quick looks at the charts of those new relationships that are impacting you in a way you cannot control.
Knowledge is essential to understanding.
Understanding helps you not take it personally.
Knowledge plus understanding = wisdom!
Love Only,
Paddi
