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Leaving romantic relationships is tough. If you liked the person enough to get involved with them, you still will still like or maybe now love that same part. Some characters have a more developed reptilian brain, and have an inner instinct that allows them to wait until somebody has fallen for them, before showing their reptilian angle. This may take a few months, or can even stretch into years until they feel that you are in a vulnerable state and can now be dominated. You , in fact, are prey  and they are predators. Sounds a bit rough? It is!

How does the person you have opened your body and heart to suddenly switch gears and become abusive? How can they be so super sweet and loving and then suddenly cruel and abusive? How do they switch so easily? How do you manage this recurrent behavior pattern that shows up in the one you love? How do you leave this relationship when the good times are so great? How do you live with a heart that hurts when your partner becomes abusive? How do you heal yourself? Can you heal the other?

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ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS

Many times the ‘prey’ does not even know they are in an abusive situation. You simply believe that their partner has an ‘issue’ that can be healed, particularly by you. You put your own self value behind theirs as you put their needs in front of yours. The predator loves this and will do nothing to change that situation. Your heart will begin to hurt, and you may eventually even, if it goes on long enough, develop a  dis -ease. You keep hoping that your partner will change and it never does. When those who love you see you loosing your vibrant energy, and suggest that it is from your abusive partner, you even lie to yourself as you find ways to justify your partner’s actions.  Does all of this sound familiar to you? If it does, then take this full moon time to make a change.

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TAKING ACTION

This is the hardest thing for you to do because you become accustomed to a the ups and down patters of your partner that you have shaped your own world around it. You may have alienated your support system because they have tried repeatedly to make you see that your great partner has you fooled. If you can feel your  heart and it is hurting, you must take action. You will need your support system. Make your move silently. Trying to explain again why you are not happy only falls on deaf ears and will only stimulate your partner to intimidate you and weaken you. Gather your strength and walk away in silence. Do not fight, do not waste your words; you will need all of your energy to start your new life. Leave material belongings if you have to; you can always replace them. The reptilian brain who is willing to cut down his/her partner is also the one who will fight extra hard to keep the material possessions. Let it go. You can always negotiate through a lawyer later.

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PUNARVASU

This full moon is all about he return of the light; your light.  You deserve to shine brightly. You deserve to be happy. Now is good! JUMP!

FOR THOSE IN HAPPY RELATIONSHIPS

This full moon is one of silliness and laughter. Enjoy the lighter side of life. Communicate about the lighter subjects. Conspire to plan new and fun vacations and play times for this year. Find deep gratitude for your good fortune. This is a great moon to plan for movement.

Love only…

 

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